Do you want to be successful with women in relationships, for real? Women are attracted to high value, confident, dominant, successful, abundance minded, social proofed, cocky, funny, resourceful, grown up, attractive men. The one with less value chases the one with higher value. The one with the more needy frame concedes to the less needy. Women naturally surrender to high value men who dont need them as much. She follows him in a dance. This is hypergamy in dating.

You only need to "approach" women because they are not chasing you. Every time you "open" a girl you have to establish the whole frame again, because you have nothing built. What keeps you in the "approach" phase is that you're low value. You keep playing because it reinforces your low value. You get tiny validations that pump your value a little, make you dream of glory, then back to low value comfort. You're playing an addiction game in dating. Low value interactions stay hard.

If you're low value, your dating interactions will be hard. If high value, they will be easy. Plan thousands of interactions: easy or hard? Having lots of hard, low value ones doesn't raise value. Losing isn't how you win. So how do you want your next 1000 dating interactions? Easy or hard? Embraced or rejected? Abundance or scarcity? Success or failure? Make it easy. Instead of approaching thousands while emulating value, raise your own value

Build up your value. And socialize. Incorporate game into you. Make what you like default, no deflating to "real you". Change who you are. Up your value and interact from there. Famous men other guys defer to and women flirt with? They don't "approach". They talk, meet people, form relationships with those who want them. Most is filtering. You're better off building value over 3 years, socializing lots of women, than approaching thousands with superficial game. Naturals have real value.